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★ Relationship tips.
Posted On Tuesday, March 29, 2011 @ 8:41 PM by Yourname | 0 Comments This Entry

Relationship tip: Don’t keep your girl waiting.

Don’t keep her waiting. If you’ve told her that you’ll be there to see her then you better be there to see her. When you tell her that she expects you to arrive at her doorstep and greet her with a big kiss and a long hug. If you don’t then of course she will worry. Give her what she expects if possible. You may just might make the relationship that much stronger. Don’t keep her waiting. If you’re running late or ran into some problems then be straight up and tell her. Don’t be ignorant and not reply to her texts/calls. Take the extra minute to let her know that you’re running late and she’ll give you the extra comfort and care you expect as well.


I know all relationships are different and unique-- however in the the sense of a functional dynamic what do you feel works best?

A balanced one where that dynamic is fairly constant and give and take, of affection and support, are in balance. So the giving and taking are roughly shared equally and simultaneously for the majority of the time.

Or does a more fluid arrangement, the giving and taking changing its direction depending on the the needs of the both partners at a giving time, hold up better over time and adversity. or possibly in the case of a primary giver and a primary taker.

Well, The first, because a standard relationship is made up of two people committed to each other, and there should definitely be a mutual give and take and a balance of supporting the needs of the relationship. However, the two people in the relationship also have individual needs, and those should not be ignored.

A combination of both is probably healthiest for a relationship, insyallah.